Virtues are the essence of our character and character does indeed determine destiny.  The more we recognize the potential impact that practicing virtues can have on our lives, the more our lives open up to new possibilities and to greater joy and fulfillment.

Acceptance

The act of accepting something or someone

Complements: Contentment, Forgiveness

Transcends: Denial, Rejection

 

Assertiveness

Disposed to or characterized by bold or confident statements and behavior

Complements: Confidence, Courage

Transcends: Self-doubt, Shyness

 

Authenticity

True to one’s own personality, spirit, or character

Complements: Honesty, Integrity

Transcends: Low self-esteem

 

Beauty

The qualities in a person or a thing that give pleasure to the senses or the mind

Complements: Joyfulness, Peace

Transcends: Ugliness

 

Caring

Feeling or showing concern for other people

Complements: Compassion, Kindness

Transcends: Cruelty, Insensitivity

 

Cleanliness

The practice of keeping yourself and your surroundings clean

Complements: Orderliness, Purity

Transcends: Dirtiness

 

Commitment

An agreement or pledge to do something in the future

Complements: Loyalty, Perseverance

Transcends: Lack of Direction

 

Compassion

Sympathetic consciousness of others’ distresses together with a desire to alleviate it

Complements: Caring, Understanding

Transcends: Grief, Judgment

 

Confidence

A feeling or belief that you can do something well or succeed at something

Complements: Assertiveness, Courage

Transcends: Self-doubt, Uncertainty

 

Consideration

The act of thinking carefully about something you will make a decision about

Complements: Caring, Compassion

Transcends: Selfishness

 

Contentment

The state of being happy and satisfied

Complements: Fulfillment, Joy

Transcends: Dissatisfaction, Restlessness

 

Cooperation

A situation in which people work together to do something

Complements: Teamwork, Unity

Transcends: Defiance

 

Courage

Mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty

Complements: Boldness, Confidence

Transcends: Fear, Self-doubt

 

Creativity

The ability to make new things or think of new ideas

Complements: Joy, Purposefulness

Transcends: Ordinary

 

Detachment

Lack of emotion or of personal interest

Complements: Faith, Freedom

Transcends: Control

 

Determination

A quality that makes you continue trying to do or achieve something that is difficult

Complements: Commitment, Tenaciousness

Transcends: Complacency

 

Dignity

A way of appearing or behaving that suggests seriousness and self-control

Complements: Honor, Respect

Transcends: Egoism, Selfishness

 

Encouragement

Something that makes someone more determined, hopeful, or confident

Complements: Support, Caring

Transcends: Self-doubt, Discouragement

 

Enthusiasm

Strong excitement about something; a strong feeling of active interest in something that you like or enjoy

Complements: Energy, Motivation

Transcends: Boredom, Indifference

 

Ethical

Following accepted rules of behavior; morally right and good

Complements: Fairness, Respect

Transcends: Immorality

 

Excellence

Extremely high quality

Complements: Dignity, Honor, Integrity, Respect

Transcends: Mediocrity

 

Fairness

Treating people in a way that does not favor some over others

Complements: Equality, Justice

Transcends: Grievance, Injustice

 

Faith

Strong belief or trust in someone or something

Complements: Confidence, Hope, Trust

Transcends: Apprehension, Doubt

 

Flexibility

Willing to change or to try different things

Complements: Detachment, Understanding

Transcends: Stubbornness

 

Forgiveness

The act of forgiving someone or something

Complements: Freedom, Peace

Transcends: Anger, Bitterness

 

Friendliness

Acting like a friend; kind and helpful

Complements: Kindness, Tact

Transcends: Shyness

 

Generosity

The quality of being kind, understanding, and not selfish; the quality of being generous

Complements: Kindness, Service

Transcends: Stinginess, Self-centered

 

Gentleness

Having or showing a kind and quiet nature; not harsh or violent

Complements: Patience, Peace

Transcends: Aggression

 

Graciousness

Very polite in a way that shows respect

Complements: Dignity, Tact

Transcends: Disrespect, Rudeness

 

Gratitude

A feeling of appreciation or thanks

Complements: Hope, Joy, Peace

Transcends: Disappointment, Pain

 

Harmonious

Having parts that are related or combined in a pleasing way

Complements: Unity

Transcends: Hostility

 

Helpfulness

Making it easier to do a job, deal with a problem, etc.; giving help

Complements: Graciousness, Service

Transcends: Negativity

 

Honesty

The quality of being fair and truthful

Complements: Integrity, Truthfulness

Transcends: Deceitfulness

 

Honor

Respect that is given to someone who is admired

Complements: Dignity, Respect

Transcends: Shame

 

Hope

To want something to happen or be true and think that it could happen or be true

Complements: Faith, Joy, Trust

Transcends: Despair, Frustration

 

Humility

The quality or state of not thinking you are better than other people

Complements: Modesty

Transcends: Arrogance, Pride

 

Idealism

The attitude of a person who believes that it is possible to live according to very high standards of behavior and honesty

Complements: Confidence, Hope

Transcends: Cynicism, Pessimism

 

Integrity

Firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values; the quality or state of being complete or undivided

Complements: Honesty, Trust

Transcends: Corruption, Deceitfulness

 

Imaginative

Having or showing an ability to think of new and interesting ideas, having or showing imagination

Complements: Creativity

Transcends: Ordinary, Rationalism

 

Joyfulness

Feeling, causing, or showing great happiness; full of joy

Complements: Hope, Peace, Love

Transcends: Discontent, Suffering

 

Justice

The process or result of using laws to fairly judge and punish crimes and criminals

Complements: Fairness, Integrity

Transcends: Discrimination

 

Kindness

The quality or state of being kind; a kind act

Complements: Caring, Compassionate

Transcends: Cruelty, Loneliness

 

Love

A feeling of strong or constant affection for a person

Complements: Caring, Forgiveness, Unity

Transcends: Fear

 

Loyalty

The quality or state of being loyal

Complements: Honesty, Trust

Transcends: Betrayal

 

Moderation

The quality or state of being reasonable and avoiding behavior, speech, etc., that is extreme or that goes beyond what is normal or acceptable

Complements: Diligence, Responsibility

Transcends: Obsessions, Overindulgence

 

Modesty

The quality of not being too proud or confident about yourself or your abilities

Complements: Humility

Transcends: Self-importance

 

Optimistic

Having or showing hope for the future; expecting good things to happen

Complements: Hope, Joyfulness

Transcends: Pessimism

 

Orderliness

Arranged or organized in a logical or regular way

Complements: Cleanliness, Purity

Transcends: Chaos

 

Passionate

Having, showing, or expressing strong emotions or beliefs

Complements: Enthusiasm, Purposefulness

Transcends: Indifference

 

Patience

The ability to wait for a long time without becoming annoyed or upset

Complements: Determination, Peace

Transcends: Frustration

 

Peace

A state of tranquility or quiet

Complements: Love, Serenity, Unity

Transcends: Anger, Cruelty

 

Perseverance

Continued effort to do or achieve something despite difficulties, failure, or opposition

Complements: Commitment, Determination, Resilience

Transcends: Laziness

 

Preparedness

The quality or state of being prepared

Complements: Excellence, Orderliness

Transcends: Complacency

 

Purposefulness

Having a purpose as in something set up as an object or end to be attained

Complements: Creativity, Commitment, Joyfulness

Transcends: Boredom, Indifference

 

Reliability

The quality or state of being reliable

Complements: Integrity, Loyalty

Transcends: Untrustworthy

 

Respect

An act of giving particular attention

Complements: Dignity, Reverence

Transcends: Inconsideration

 

Responsibility

The quality or state of being responsible as in moral, legal, or mental accountability

Complements: Courtesy, Tact, Trust

Transcends: Selfishness

 

Reverence

Honor or respect that is felt for or shown to (someone or something)

Complements: Respect, Worth

Transcends: Hatred

 

Self-discipline

Correction or regulation of oneself for the sake of improvement

Complements: Commitment, Determination

Transcends: Chaos, Unruliness

 

Service

Contribution to the welfare of others

Complements: Compassion, Generosity, Purposefulness

Transcends: Lack of concern, Self-centered

 

Sincerity

The quality or state of being sincere; honesty of mind

Complements: Authentic

Transcends: Disingenuous

 

Tact

A keen sense of what to do or say in order to maintain good relations with others or avoid offense

Complements: Graciousness, Responsibility

Transcends: Clumsiness

 

Temperate

Habitual moderation in the indulgence of the appetites or passions

Complements: Moderation

Transcends: Excessive

 

Tenacious

Persistent in maintaining, adhering to, or seeking something valued or desired

Complements: Discipline, Perseverance

Transcends: Indecision

 

Thankfulness

Conscious of benefit received

Complements: Gratitude, Thoughtfulness

Transcends: Unappreciative

 

Tolerance

Capacity to endure pain or hardship; sympathy or indulgence for beliefs or practices differing from or conflicting with one’s own

Complements: Patience, Tenacious

Transcends: Narrow-mindedness

 

Trust

Assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something

Complements: Loyalty, Respect

Transcends: Doubt, Skepticism

 

Truthfulness

Telling or disposed to tell the truth

Complements: Honesty, Faith, Trust

Transcends: Corruption, Deceit

 

Understanding

An agreement of opinion or feeling; adjustment of differences

Complements: Kindness, Tolerance

Transcends: Egoism

 

Unity

The quality or state of being made one

Complements: Harmony, Love, Peace

Transcends: Loneliness

 

Visionary

A thought, concept, or object formed by the imagination

Complements: Imagination, Leadership

Transcends: Lack of Inspiration

 

Wisdom

Accumulated philosophic or scientific learning, knowledge

Complements: Idealism, Visionary

Transcends: Lack of Intelligence

 

Wonder

A feeling caused by seeing something that is very surprising, beautiful, amazing, etc.

Complements: Creativity, Imagination   // Transcends: Boredom